Zellwood, FL – Shelia Gwinn was born in Beckley, W.VA. in 1943. A '61 graduate of Woodrow Wilson High School. She attended Alderson Broaddus College in Phillipi, W.VA. where she studied science and nursing. She married her high school sweetheart Jon in 1964 and spent the next 16 years as the wife of an Air Force sergeant who could not tell her where he was going, what he would be doing or when he would be back. She shouldered most of the burden of raising two beautiful children while the Air Force moved them from Alaska to Greece and other locations, finally settling in Maryland. Once the kids were on their own, she took up banking, serving customers for 16 years before retiring from Bank of America in 1998. Her customers loved her and trusted her completely. Shelia's favorite thing was to have her hands in the soil. She created the most beautiful flower garden in our Maryland neighborhood. She
became a master cake decorator, decorating wedding cakes and special event cakes for the First U.S. Army Band and numerous other organizations. She loved to sew, embroider, quilt and experiment with a variety of other crafts such as beading and basket making. She was not only known to have played softball and golf (2 holes in one) but also to do things like para-sailing, kayaking and white water rafting. She loved life and made the most out of it. In 2015, Shelia and Jon made their way to Zellwood, FL. It was the happiest time of her life. She left us on March 30th, 2017. She is survived by her husband Jon, children Charlie and Andrea, son-in-law Marty Matthews, sister Pamela and grandsons Willie and Mikey.
Loomis Funeral Home in Apopka, Florida is handling arrangements.
In lieu of flowers, we suggest donations to the Debbie Turner Cancer Care Center http://debbieturnercancercare.com in Apopka, Florida.
Ed Iwanski says
Jon, I am so saddened to learn that Shelia has passed. Prayers for her, for you and for the children.
Hendrika Vande Kemp says
I only met Shelia once, when Jon and Shelia hosted a birthday party for Tom Brown. The Gwinns have been “family” ever since, due to their wonderful gift of hospitality. My deepest condolences to Jon and all the extended family.
Hap Hambric says
I like many of us were caught unawares with Shelia’s passing. She was a friend in school, and I know…a treasure to Jon and the family. We send you our deepest condolences for this sad occasion. Hap and Jytte Hambric
Zellwood, Florida says
I met Shelia when she and Jon moved to Zellwood and immediately fell in love with her kindness and gentleness. She had a quick wit and a very knowing smile. More than anything I loved her laugh; when she was really tickled. It was the best sound, knowing that you made her laugh. She was the kind of friend every person wants to have and I am glad that she was mine. You will be so missed my dear sweet lady. I love you.
Kathy says
It was a blessing to all of us at Zellwood Station to have Sheila and Jon retire here. I knew Sheila was a talented woman however being a risk taker is something I just learned. I so miss her conversation while Jon played darts. A truly beautiful woman. Loved her and love her family.
Kathy Winter
Carole and Bob says
Jon so sorry to hear of Sheila’s passing. I did not know her long but enjoyed my visits with her at the reunions. She will be missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Carole and Bob
John Knopp says
Jon,
So sorry to hear about Shelia’s passing. I’ll look back fondly on the times Tricia and I spent with you and her, whether it was a holiday get-together, a Greek Easter party, or a humid summer night at an Orioles game. She epitomized the word “lady” and she’ll be missed greatly.
Cat and Mason says
Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire Gwinn family. We have had many great memories with Sheila and Jon on their many visits to North Carolina. Her impressive baking talents were always fond memories for us. Especially the wedding cake at Marty and Andrea’s reception. We enjoyed a lot of our conversations in the kitchen at the Mathews house and Dink nights at the Carnes. We are thankful to have known her and are thinking of you all during this difficult time. Love Always, Mason and Cat Carnes
Cat and Mason Carnes says
Mick & Sandy Finn says
Mick & Sandy Finn says
Shelia will be missed, our prayers to Jon & family
Bill Stevenson says
Shelia was truly one of the most genuinely nice people I ever met. I knew her through Jon, with whom I worked for many years and occasionally played golf. (He graciously tolerated my game, which was much below his skill level.) I soon discovered that Shelia was also a good golfer. My best remembrances we a few times when we went to tournaments together. Once we were at a Champions Tour (seniors) tournament at Hobbits Glen in Columbia, MD, and during a practice round Gary Player invited her to ride in his cart to the next tee. Her quiet demeanor didn’t hide her pleasant personality. As I told Jon, the world is a better place for her having been in it.
Christine Scott says
John and Donna Mix says
We mourn the passing of a great lady and friend. We enjoyed many rounds of golf and more than a few laughs together. We will always remember her smile, her willingness to help others, and her enjoyment of all the tales Jon told of their various mishaps and adventures. What a life she lived! May she rest in peace.
Lonnie Henderson says
WINGS, WIVES AND WARRIORS
Shelia Gwinn
An Angel gained her wings today.
She has joined other Angels, the Silent Partners of the Silent Warriors.
As we flew away to distant shores, distant jungles, distant places
She maintained the home front, watching and waiting.
Being both mother and father to the children who did not understand
why daddy is not there again for their birthday, for Christmas, for whatever.
No medals, no parades for this lady, except from those of us who knew her.
Rest in peace, dear friend.
Just as you watched over Jon for all those years, rest assured that
we will continue to do the same.
Lonnie Henderson and the Prop Wash Gang
Leesburg Florida says
Condolences to Jon, Andrea, Charlie and Pam.
There are so many good memories from years past.
Shirley and Dave Bristol says
Katrina Gwinn says
I have so many wonderful memories about Aunt Shelia-my favorite is not a single event, but a feeling I always had when I saw her and Uncle Jon together. He is a talker and she was the more quiet one, it seemed to me, but she was always a “rock” that he could tie his kite to and fly without sailing away. I remember not that long ago when we all went on the New River to take my dad, Joel Gwinn, on a raft trip. Jon and Shelia had a two person kayak, I believe, and I remember they capsized. Unlike a lot of people, Jon and Shelia got right back in and paddled, no complaining. I remember thinking “she had true grit”. That story is a metaphor for her life: she stuck with Jon no matter what the rapids did, and as a result, they both enjoyed the journey very, very much as far as I can tell. True romance is rare, in my experience, and these two had that wonderful love relationship that songs and poems have been written about since time immemorial.
Dave and Ginny Thompson says
Tom Brown says
Jon was a little boy when I was born, so even though he’s my uncle, he has always been my “older brother.” I was halfway through high school when I attended Shelia and Jon’s wedding. She was, in a way, my sister-in-law, and I will miss her very much. She always had a big hug to give, and she loved children of all ages. Shelia was Jon’s other half, and we grieve with him and my cousins. We will always treasure the good times and special visits always made more special in some way by Shelia.
John and Julie Bertak says
John and Marilyn Polson says
Bud (Rosie) Rosenstrom says
Shelia was a fine and gracious lady. What always struck me was that she and Jon had much more than a successful marriage: it was a true partnership. Gone too soon, Shelia, you’ll always be remembered with affection and a smile.
The Coopers says
As long time neighbors and friends there are more joyous memories and stories than this site could hold. Our first meeting was just after we moved in next door in MD. She showed up with a warm loaf of sour dough bread and a welcome greeting, Shelia was like a Grandma to our daughters and such was her life. Reaching out to others, welcoming them and no one will ever forget one of her hugs. Rest to her and peace to the family.
Lori Cooper (Shelly) says
I can’t find the proper words to express my gratitude for the love and support that I was shown throughout my life. Even times when I didn’t deserve it. Birthdays, Christmas, Easter, and most other holidays in between were made so much sweeter; literally and figuratively speaking. Such a beautiful soul to be around; she left her mark on the world and on my heart. I will love and remember her always as the role model and adopted grandma that she was. More memories than I can convey, that will live on in my heart.
Mr. Gwinn,, Andrea, Charlie and kids: I am sending you all of my love.
Love,
Shelly <3
Lani says
I was blessed with one of the best friends anyone could have and I owe a huge thank you to Sheila and Jon .. because it is their daughter Andrea. The Gwinn’s moved in across the street from me (in Maryland) and I spent many a day at their house. I was always in awe of Mrs. Gwinn’s cake baking abilities.. I asked for her secret once and she said no 🙂
She always welcomed me into her home and treated me like I was part of the family and I will always be thankful for that. I know she loved her family .. that was evident. I know her family loved her.. they each will carry a piece of her in their heart… for always.
Mike Geraghty says
I met Shelia at my bank in Maryland in 1988, where she was employed. Shelia would introduce me to the mother of my two sons there, who today are ages 24 and 22, and out in the world as roaring successes while defending the country in the US military.
Turned out, we shared the same neighborhood with Shelia and Jon and a great friendship was formed. At this moment, all I can express through deep sadness is that I’ve traveled far and wide and never met a person like Shelia Ann Gwinn. Her soft southern voice and gentle manner were straight out of Hollywood Central Casting. In the 25 years that I knew Sheila in Maryland, I never once saw her raise her voice, let alone get angry or moody. Every single time I rang the Gwinn doorbell, she’d see me through the glass and opened the door with a large smile. From there, I never got through the mud room without a gigantic hug. While I mostly showed up for something doing with Jon, Shelia never failed to offer everything -from making fresh coffee just for me to cookies or a big sandwich. Any time of day. Every time. As I’ve told Jon privately, she was almost angelic.
Jon certainly found a diamond in the rough in this gal. How many women in their 40s, 50s & 60s willingly go out to play competitive softball and golf, and…forget about parasailing—which is highly courageous and a little nuts—but learn to ride a motorcycle? I once happened upon Jon & Shelia in a school parking lot with Shelia sitting on a curb with pant leg rolled to the knee. She was gently blowing on this slice of pizza which was her lower leg and picking out tiny gravel bits. I asked Jon, who was there assisting, what the hell had happened? He nodded over to HIS new prize possession and quietly said “Motorcycle; I’m teaching Shelia to ride.” Ugh; poor Shelia. But then: Exhibit A of the things a truly great and fully engaged wife will do for her husband…
But that was them: as Jon went, so did Shelia, and vice versa. I wanted a marriage like Jon & Shelia’s… and still hope for a retirement in the way in which they enjoyed one—active, adventurous and fun.
From afar, and without Jon & Shelia being aware, I pointed my sons to them as the perfect example of how to conduct an exemplary life—a loving marriage, parents of classy & productive kids; to be kind & benevolent people, (and as two young men, towards Jon and his USAF career: to be bold–dive into the world and do something that men don’t do everyday;) and to find a wife like Shelia–who’s strong and will quarterback the household but stays crazy about you…To have a comfortable & welcoming home, as well as the love of animals, the written word and a thirst to always try something new. By small example, in their retirement years, when most are streamlining, the Gwinn’s added a hot tub and a pellet food smoker thing to the backyard.. and a wine cellar to their home’s basement! There was never a dull moment at 355 Chaptico South.
Shelia’s gone, but she’ll never be forgotten. Jon: I feel blessed in so many ways. My wife, who’s highly devout and a much better person than me, doesn’t believe in luck. I’m still trying to get there. But a Believer knows that we’re all part of God’s Plan and everything we do is part of It.
Well, whether it’s luck or Divine Intervention, if you’re fortunate, a person like Shelia Gwinn will enter your life. We’ve been praying for her peaceful rest and I’ve been adding a personal thanks for being allowed to know her. Shelia’s friendship enriched my life and I’ll be eternally grateful.
Jon, Charlie, Andrea: I’m terribly sorry for your loss, but going forward, try to take solace in knowing that you rolled a seven in getting the wife and mom that you did. She seemed to me to be as good as it got.
Stay strong and go well, Mike G
Mike Furgurson says
Both Shelia and Jon were a big part of my life both as a young airman and as a ‘mature’ adult. She was always kind and thoughtful to me and I will miss her dearly. My only regret, as Jon knows, is that she got her first hole-in-one before I got my only hole-in-one. My deepest sympathy to the family.
Rich and Peggy Larsen says
Kenni Lou Walker says
We will remember Shelia’s quiet countenance supported by her warm and knowing smile. Though I wish I had known her longer, she leaves a lasting impression of warmth and kindness. Jon and Shelia’s relationship is a true example of love and partnership. What an example they set!
Sending love and light to your precious family, today and as time passes.
Hillar and Kay says
We met Shelia and Jon about a couple of decades ago, through Gery Cooper with whom I have common computer interests. Kay and I had numerous occasions to visit the Gwinns, enjoy dinners, and interact on a variety of topics. We were always greeted so warmly by Shelia.
Shelia exuded friendliness and thoughtfulness in conversation, and competence in her various interests. She was so dedicated and attentive to Jon, and was always willing to participate at his side, whether in social settings, golfing, or other pursuits.
From her beautiful and creative needlework/embroidery, she graciously presented us with several delightful pieces which we annually display on our Christmas tree.
In learning more about her life I am deeply impressed with her strength, diligence and patience in primarily, and much of the time single-handedly, raising their children, Charlie and Andrea, while Jon faithfully served our country in far flung places for some 16 years. What an accomplishment! Yet she was always modest about her own achievements.
We take solace in knowing that she and Jon had a particularly wonderful time when they moved to Florida, and that her suffering, as best we know, was, in the waning time, minimal.
A life well lived! What more can any one of us expect or hope for.
May all family, friends, and acquaintances remember her, as we do, fondly.
Thinking of you-all,
Hillar and Kay
Jerry and Terry Ellis says
Shelia epitomized the Air Force wife, both tough but sweet. It takes a strong lady to put up with guys who have careers like ours. May she rest in peace.
Beverly Whitehead says
My thoughts are with you and the family. Beverly Whitehead
Garold Stone says
Larry & Diane Tart says
Jon,
Words fail me when I attempt to express Diane & my sadness that Shelia was called home so soon after the two of you settled in your new home in Florida. We always looked forward to catching up on Gwinn family news during annual Air Force reunions we attended for the last two decades, and learning of Shelia’s illness a few months ago was a complete shock –she was always so amiable & good-natured. Rest assured that you, Charlie, Andrea, and your grandchildren are in our thoughts and prayers. Hang in there, Old Friend, and call on me anytime if I can be of assistance. In Brotherhood –Larry & Diane
Garold Stone says
Shelia always made me feel very at home whenever i visited your house in Maryland City. I remember pleasant lunches and conversations with you two at the nearby Panera. My heart with yours.
Garold Stone says
Shelia always made me feel very at home whenever i visited your house in Maryland City. I remember pleasant lunches and conversations with you both at the nearby Panera.
My heart with yours.
Peggy Larsen says
I really miss Shelia’s presence in my life. We only knew one another for two years; but we became good friends. I will think about the good times and her calm demeanor during the tough times.